} This is an account from the academic and feminist activist Maureen C. McHugh, a university professor of psychology of women and psychology of human sexuality for 25 years, what women want sex:
1. Women want sex consensual
Most women had some experience with sexual coercion, it varies from being pressured or forced to have sex when they want. Many women described multiple sexual encounters involving excessive alcohol consumption combined with sexual aggressiveness.
who pressure you for sex or sexual activity of any kind is a reality, for example, a little guy when I did not dance with him told me she was a lesbian (as an insult that is), yes to him lesbians are a problem, because if any woman he is not available for lesbian, then I think that 99% of women are lesbians. Also remember that you out to dance in a disco in Chile means to try to kiss in 10 minutes or less. Or later if you danced and kissed, I can say that you cartridge for not wanting to go with him, such men took possession of the sexual liberation of women and made a new type of submission.
How will we work for a society in which all women enjoy consensual sex?
2. Women want sex mutually satisfactory
Wladislav Podkowinski "La Folie" 1894
The absence of coercive sex or sexual trauma, is very good, but not means that you are sexually satisfied.
Many women have been in at least one relationship where they were sexually active but not sexually satisfied.
a common pattern of sexual development involves many young women being pressured by her school boyfriend to have sex. Finally accepted, and they describe the "event" and below expectations.
Usually, the groom then want to have sex frequently and other activities such as games and a movie are abandoned, like other sexual activities as regaloneo and kisses. Often, girls do not enjoy this routine, and miss other aspects of the relationship.
Sometimes discussions, conflicts and / or jealousy. Eventually the relationship ends, and after a while, she gets involved again, often with a repetitive history. One end of this scenario is that she knows a better boyfriend, or lover, and finally has an orgasm.
These young women have been sexually active since she was 13 or 15 years and have had sex with multiple partners, and have not experienced sexual pleasure or orgasm until age 20. They are unhappy, according to the traditional perspective that emphasizes satisfying sex orgasm.
These findings are consistent with the stories of women reported by Hite [i] ( 1976) who document the dissatisfaction that many experienced in their heterosexual encounters and relationships.
is the "same old story" of male sexual advances and pressure on the young woman who sees herself as an object of desire for her boyfriend and who romanticizes to him instead of wanting it. With no expectation of pleasure, and being socialized to focus and respond to the needs of men, young women do not see this story as problematic.
Reference:
Maureen C. McHugh (1006). What Do Women Want? A New View Of Women's Sexual Problems. Sex Roles (2006) 54:361-369.
[i] The Hite Report on Female Sexuality (1976), collects the responses of 3,019 women to a questionnaire. This report focused on understanding how individuals live their sexual experiences and the meaning for them. The report was carried out by means of questionnaires were answered anonymously by people who had access to it.
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